"Learn who you are.
Unlearn who they told you to be."
Sylvester McNutt
Improve Self-Esteem & Self-Talk
In these sessions we use Cognitive Restructuring combined with hypnosis to improve your internal self-talk and make positive changes to the way you perceive yourself.
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Cognitive Restructuring is a therapeutic technique which helps people adapt and improve unhelpful beliefs and thinking patterns into something more useful and empowering. In these sessions we combine this technique with hypnosis to help re-frame and rewrite the way that you habitually think about yourself and internally speak to yourself.
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​For so many of us, the way we perceive ourselves seems like nothing more than a fixed set of facts about ourselves that we know to be true. Very few of us question the beliefs we hold about ourselves. Because if anyone in this world knows us….it’s us, right?
Well, no, not necessarily. The truth is that many of the beliefs which we have about ourselves often started out as distorted misunderstandings which we absorbed from other people and our environment as children. One of the reasons for this is because at exactly the same time that we are developing our sense of identity, we are also the most highly suggestible that we will ever be.
In fact, the brainwave pattern associated with heightened suggestibility in hypnosis (theta) is actually our dominant brainwave pattern before around the age of 7. In tandem with this, the areas of our brain which govern critical thinking, reasoning and analytical thinking are one of the last areas to develop and mature. Which means that as children we have very little scope for critiquing or truly questioning the ideas that we are exposed to about ourselves.
This means that during infancy, the information that we are exposed to about ourselves sticks. This is true whether it’s information and opinions which are directly and explicitly said to you, subtly inferred or overheard in passing. It also includes the ideas you came to develop about yourself as a natural result of self-comparison, with everyone from your siblings and peers, to celebrities and movie stars.
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So, despite the fact that this concoction of comments, comparisons and inferences greatly influences our own perception of ourselves, very few of us stop to truly question how valid, accurate or helpful these ideas are.
In these sessions we use Cognitive Restructuring techniques combined with hypnosis to adapt and improve some of the distorted, inaccurate and unhelpful ideas you have about yourself. This simple but incredibly powerful method helps you to rewrite your self-perception and self-talk into something more accurate, helpful and empowering.